On Sunday, May 7th, we visited the Puerto Rican Traveling Theater and sat through the “Quarter Rican” play and musical. It is about this newly fresh father, Daniel, who is Puerto Rican married to his white girlfriend and he is in a dilemma because he wants his son to grow up embracing Puerto Rican culture and not be white-washed. He spends all his time worrying about this racial complex and forcing the baby to lean towards his father’s side more than his mother’s side, but what he doesn’t realize is that time is better spent teaching and raising the kid to be a good person. ‘As long as you raise a good man who becomes a good person.” and “as long as the kid knows where he comes from,” but doesn’t necessarily have to adopt all the norms and ways because maybe some might not work for him.
I think that sometimes identity is not claimed but rather instilled in one when they’re little and they have the choice of expanding it or suppressing it. I compare it to religion because it’s something sacred and there is a saying and a question at the same time, “do you belong because you believe or you believe because you belong.” It basically means that when it comes to beliefs, most likely were influenced by those who raised us and we adopt their beliefs so we believe because we belong but as we grow older then that has the possibility of changing completely. We start to belong because we believe as sometimes people choose to change religions and convert. The same goes with identity, you are born into the world pure and innocent and personality-less and the environment around you develops you as a person so you have to perform accordingly if you would like to stay in that same environment. However, as you grow older you start to become more independent and realize you can make decisions for yourself so you have a choice to either remain in the same environment or distance yourself away from it.




